• Kai Helmich

The "Love Lock"


What if I tell you a secret that I call the Love Lock. During prolonged intercourse there exists a opportunity that changes the way how you see, feel and think about sex and in particular about how you experience intercourse with your partner.


What if I tell you that this magic moment is a sacred act where your partner whilst already in intercourse with you truly opens up to, and receives you fully as she invites you into the Love Lock, that will open your heart and you will feel, likely for the first time ever: to be received fully.


What if I tell you that she is the gate that you are seeking.


What if I tell you that in your heart, you have the key to open the gate that you are seeking to open.


What if I tell you that this gate cannot be opened. Instead, it will fuse you together and melt you into a heart opening experience as being one. Doesn’t it say: “And the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh.” (Mark 10:8)


What if I tell you that the Love Lock requires a ritual, to cut your ties that bind you to your past. If you haven’t cut your umbilical cord with your parents, you are not open for your future and as long as that, the woman won’t open her gate for you. ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’ (Matthew 19:5)


What if I tell you that the Love Lock bonds and improves connection, increases vision and faith in the relationship and maintains a tight knit vessel that won’t breach and spill over with the sacredness of your relationship. Just as it says: So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” (Matthew 19:6)


What if I tell you that this act of getting into a Love Lock with your partner will humble the man, to seek instead of owning the well for his sanity, his thirst and his hunger.


What if I tell you, a man who is love locked will not hurt the hand that feeds him.


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